I digress..I do that a lot. Like I said, I'm verbose :)
Back on track...
I was so excited to start WW at work, but then received a pretty disturbing text from a friend. Someone from church had approached her about having an intervention with me over my weight. In hindsight, I know that it came from a place of love, but the way it was handled had me immediately on the defensive, and employing my defense mechanism of not eating. I call it fat girl anorexia. I know that it is insensitive, but it's the best way to describe how I react. When I feel like life is spiraling out of control, or if I am stressed out, I just don't eat. The stress of deciding what to eat is too much, so I just decide not to eat. But I wouldn't allow my defense mechanism to kick in this time.
I went forward with WW and ended up losing 18 lbs. We ended up having to disband, because we didn't have enough people to start a second session. I tried just doing the online for a while, but those old habits started creeping in, and with a looming health issue, I stopped eating. Then I would only eat tortilla chips with melted cheese on top. Super nutritious, right?!
After a few months of back and forth with my sister, we decided to go at this weight thing together, and chose WW. I really think it will be helpful for the both of us, even though we have different issues with food. The flexibility/personalized approach of WW will allow us both to be successful, even though our approaches might look different.
I had a small moment yesterday where I had the same knee jerk reaction to sabotaging myself. I had a friend email a link to a book/self study that she had just finished. As I was reading the synopsis, I felt a little bit attacked, because the main premise is about weight loss, or at least at first glance. But I checked myself and my reaction, and decided to give it a try. The book is;
Becoming Myself: Embracing God's Dream of You
I started reading the first chapter last night, and this book could not have come at a better time.
I'll give an update on my progress as I read, then I'm going to start on the Study Guide once I finish.
Happy Hump Day Everyone!
Until next time...
Whassy